Haters Gonna Hate

Seems as though you have the most controversial baby blog on tumblr baby! How’s that for an accomplishment at 6 months eh?

One thing little girl about life that sucks is no matter where you go or what you do in life, haters are gonna hate. Period. For every positive thing you place out in the world there will be a not so positive thing to balance that out. Just as change is inevitable so is balance. And sadly a lot of the time this balance will be made by negative people and their half hearted actions. And the sad thing is a lot of the time these negative people are usually most present in your life when your creating or part of something amazing. I don’t know why that is, I guess some would say jealousy, maybe they want to be part of your life but don’t know how so they do it in a negative way, I’m not sure.

I can tell you for every great thing I’ve accomplished in my life at some point a “negative Nancy” has shown up telling me how I’m doing it wrong or should be doing it better in an inappropriate way. And every time this has happened I’ve brushed it off and continued on my way. Not that it hasn’t burned or hurt my feelings in the past because it has but I’ve always held my head high and kept going. And you know what? I’ve done some amazing things with my life so far, more then a lot of people have accomplished at my age and I have even bigger plans for the future. If I let these people bring me down because of my ideas, opinions, and dreams I would have gotten nowhere fast.

It’s interesting, they did a study and found only two percent of the population is actually active in improving themselves and being active towards change for themselves. This means these people (myself and I hope some day you) are the minority with many road bumps and “negative Nancys” to overcome and face.

I do promise you little girl, if you dare to step outside the box, dare to follow your heart and stand up for what you believe in you will go to a magical place with your life. Just look at your Momma she’s living proof.

Xo mom